Category: Singles Spit Swap
Hi all, Thought i'd send a message, in the event there are any new, single and possibly femme lesbians who may wanna get to know me better. i'm not in to threesomes. many people have told me to stop looking, and I disagree with that extremely! Its the only sure way I'm gonna find someone, and I'm simply tired of being alone! anyone who's female and single is welcome to contact me on here via private mail or pqn. SilkyGirl
they tell you to stop looking, don't listen to them, they're just, yeah. don't stop looking, true you'll get crap on here from a lot of people cuz the zone is just that, the zone, but don't let that stop you.
Oh trust me! No one's gonna stop me from saying what I wanna say, and don't mind telling anyone who crosses me how it is!! are ou on skype darkWing?
Well, I wouldn't call it a sure thing, but people have found love and have been very happy here. As before, I'm not exactly fem, but always interested in meeting women who want to meet women. Looking forward to talking again soon!
Agree with Darkwing, definitely don't stop looking! I'm sure it will be worth the wait! I'm a femme lesbian, not been out that long, not actively looking for a relationship but your welcome to chat any time!
hey silky girl. good luck. mite have to dump my girl. soon. thinking of going to be single. soon. not feeling the hole relnship thing. want some one around my age. *hugs* talk to ya soon.
All right, I'm sorry, but I feel I ought to say this.
First off, this isn't a religious tirade and I'm not going to tell anyone that they're "wrong" for doing what they do or being who they are. I have absolutely zero problem with people being interested in members of the same sex, so that's not what this is about.
What does bother me a little, though, is the apparently overwhelming need in some people to be in a relationship. If your need to be in a relationship is, on the whole, stronger than your desire to have friends or to do other things in life - that latter is not something I'm attempting to assert, but I'm not dismissing it out of hand either - it might be considered unhealthy. It is about on par with wanting to eat simply because there is food available, or wanting to convincing yourself that you're hungry simply because said food might be forthcoming. It is psychologically worrisome to want a relationship purely for the sake of not wanting to be alone. Being alone can be terrible if you don't want to deal with it, since humans are social creatures...but being with someone for the primary purpose of -not being alone is a heartbreak waiting to happen.
I'm not going to tell you to stop, to tell you not to look or tell you I don't wish you luck. Indeed, I hope you find what you need...which may or may not be the same thing as what you're looking for here. Be well.
have to say I agree with the previous poster to a large extent.
Also that the title makes you sound a bit desparate.
But that aside, I am struck by another post:
"mite have to dump my girl. soon. thinking of going to be single. soon. not feeling the hole relnship thing."
Now I appreciate the need to post if you're single and hoping to find someone, but if you're not yet single, posting to essentially advertise the fact that you might be thinking about becoming single and thus available is just a bit in bad taste isn't it? especially given this is a publically accessible website and the girl who is the subject of being dumped could well be reading and discover it via the internet.
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You know, it might be food for thought for anyone who reads this topic including you, Silkygirl, to consider the following. Suppose you find someone who shares a mutual interest in getting into a serious relationship with you.
If she/he were to ask you, "What does it take for a healthy relationship to work in your mind?" What would your anser be?
I looked, and looked, and am still looking. *grin.. But I know how to look, and for whom I'm seeking. It isn't just about not wanting to be alone, but about wanting to give, and take, on a healthy, and mutually pleasurable level that will last.
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I never said I wasn't going to give and take! Relationships are all about comunication and committment. I I don't understan you.
Do it for the right reasons, maby? I duhno...
exactly. I just don't understand people's thinking on here at times. They may not agree, or opinions may be different, everyone's entitled to his/her opion, as well as myself.
"Now I appreciate the need to post if you're single and hoping to find someone, but if you're not yet single, posting to essentially advertise the fact that you might be thinking about becoming single and thus available is just a bit in bad taste isn't it? especially given this is a publically accessible website and the girl who is the subject of being dumped could well be reading and discover it via the internet."
Or was that the point?
if it is, wow. What a way to...um, let someone know you're not wanting to be with them anymore?
as to the original poster, best of luck! to me, there's nothing wrong with being in a relationship. Just don't settle for any less than what you know you deserve.
I agree, bad taste probably, but I guess it gets the job done.